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Purpose & Philosophy
Purpose Statement:
The purpose of the 26 week Fit to Lead BIP is to identify and replace distorted thoughts and beliefs, such as self-aggrandizing authoritarianism (Luke 22:26), that lead to controlling attitudes that drive behaviors that demean, demoralize, condescend, patronize, dishonor, disrespect, defile, and cause Spiritual, physical, psychological, emotional, financial, and sexual harm to victims of domestic violence.
Utilizing the most effective psychological theory: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and the sufficiency of Scripture. These distortions are exposed, rebuked, and replaced through the truth of biblical masculinity, which is an attitude of benevolent responsibility to lead, provide for, and protect women through Jesus’ example of servanthood. Research has consistently shown that increased religiosity promotes marital satisfaction and commitment. Studies have also clearly shown that religious programming is more effective in program completion and reducing recidivism.
Program Philosophy:
Our philosophy is predicated on the fact that Domestic violence is nothing short of domestic terrorism. It is the act of holding a victim hostage to the power and control of the terrorist by any means necessary: financial, sexual, emotional, physical, and Spiritual. Domestic violence is not a marriage problem, it is not a physical problem, and it is not a mental health issue or psychological problem, but a willful and deliberate act by the abuser to gain power and/or control over a person.
Domestic violence is rooted in the spiritual problem caused by a sinner’s absolute refusal to deny himself and die to his sinful desires of the “lust of the eyes, lust of the flesh, and the pride of life” (1 Jn. 2:16).
It is a fallacy to think that Domestic violence belongs solely to the field of psychology or counseling. The fact is that when you study abuse, you are studying the very psychology of sin. We read in 1 John 3:4 that all sin is lawlessness. And lawlessness is rebellion against the only One who is entitled to power and control, God Himself, for He alone is sovereign.
Since no person, programming, or psychological theory has been developed or is capable of changing a person’s heart, and it is only through the power of the Holy Spirit; Even the empirical data demonstrates the greater level of success in Christian offender programming. We believe that offenders do not need more “education,” they need transformation. Because “the gospel is the power unto salvation,” which causes the transformation, and the Holy Spirit is the only power capable of changing a heart, we declare God’s Word, in that it is only through the blood of Jesus Christ that a person can become “a new creation.”
Biblical men are called to be leaders. However, the misconception via misinterpretation of twisting Scripture – God’s leadership role for men is often distorted and misunderstood to mean that men have some “Male privilege.” – But the Bible is clear: There is no such thing. Quite the contrary, Biblical Men are called to serve, not be served.
• Biblical masculinity expresses itself not in the demand to be served but in the strength to serve and to sacrifice for the good of woman.
• Biblical masculinity does not assume the authority of Christ over a woman but advocates for it.
• Biblical masculinity does not presume superiority but mobilizes the strength of others.
Biblical men – Real men do not abuse (terrorize) the ones they love. They lead in the same manner as Christ leads the church: “... and “gave Himself up for her.” Biblical men – Real men can find their only “privilege” in that they alone must demonstrate sacrificial love by being first to the cross.
Fee Schedule
Fit to Lead BIP Program Mandate
This 26 week program is available to all men across the United States. It is entirely online, with mandatory homework and group meetings once a week. Currently, the group will meet via Zoom (a link will be provided to all accepted participants).
Batterer Intervention Fee Schedule
You must complete orientation prior to beginning the BIP
Fit to Lead is a continuum online course you may begin at any time.
You must complete the intake, assessment, and orientation for approval to enter the class.
Intake Form
60
This must be completed in its ENTIRETY, scanned, and emailed, or it will be rejected. Payment will be required at the time of submission to hollytashley@gmail.com. Payment and form link can be found at the bottom of this page.
Course Curriculum
250
26 Week continuous program (anyone can join at anytime). After the intake form is received and payment is made, the orientation and assessment will be conducted via phone or Zoom - once all records are received from the applicant: police reports, psych assessments, etc. Then, a background check will be completed, you will be allowed to purchase, and a download link will be provided.
Other Fees
Other fees
Absence Fee
25
If you miss a class, there is a $25 absence fee. Only two (2) classes are allowed to be missed. All classes missed must be made up. More than two classes will result in termination from the program and a reinstatement fee plus the absent fees will be required for re-entry. Re-entry is conditional on approval from program director, judge, probation, and/or the District Attorney.
Reinstatement Fee
50
approval required
Offender Counseling (Optional one-on-one)
65
Missed appointments with less than 24 hour notice, will be charged the full amount. If an individual misses more than 2 appointments, he will be discharged from the individual counseling option.
Indigent participants are required to pay the fees for both absences and reinstatement.
Make a Payment
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All payments can be made through this link. You will enter the amount at the time of purchase. All credit cards are accepted.
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